Monday, October 17, 2011

Fall FUN

 
Mustang Ride after school!


Funfit Graduate!!

Fall Swinging


You could say that's a pile of leaves...

Soccer Star


See my real life Halloween monsters?

The Family at Jumbo's - 11 years in a row!

Girls on the Hayride!

Drew posing again by the pretty mums.


Ava and her pumpkin.

Thursday, October 13, 2011

A link I liked

A friend posted this link she found, and I think it's right on.

http://www.whatiwouldtellyou.com/

Wednesday, October 12, 2011

Andrew Update

Writing this post...to keep a record for myself.....

These past few months have passed and slowly Andrew has gone from being a eager, happy two meals a day plus snack eater, to barely eating anything at all.  Andrew is 12 and people have been commenting that Andrew is on his growth spurt "spreading out" and looking good.  I thought that was what was going on, until I weighed him a  little over a week ago.  Andrew has gone from a top weight of 104lbs to currently 79lbs.  He is noticeably skinnier throughout his entire body. ( I preferred the "hefty" Drew.)  This summer per our doctors orders we increased his one seizure med and very, very slowly weaned the another. After months and months, Andrew was off of the highly addictive Clobazam and on a max dose of 800mg Banzel 2 x day.  He remained on Felbatol 4cc three times per day.  Even back at the old house (April) we noticed Andrew not eating as well, but definitely as of September it is a struggle to get any food in him at all.  It's gotten so bad, I am going into school to feed Andrew lunch so that he doesn't come home from school at 4:45pm without eating the entire day.  A side effect of Banzel is loss of appetite, nausea, vomiting.  Andrew is showing these side effects.  We have talked with the doctor, and are now weaning the Banzel, adding a very small amount of Clobazam back in, and increasing the Felbatol to 5cc, 4cc, 5cc to compensate for the Banzel reduction.  We hope that Banzel is the problem -( and that there are no other hidden medical problems we can't see!).  We hope to see Andrew's appetite return.  Also as we reduced the last Clobazam pill, a stronger seizure did present (lasting 60+ seconds, more tonic clonic shaking, and loud grunting), and also Andrew's muscles became tighter. (Clobazam is a muscle relaxer).  Hopefully the Clobazam pill addition will take care of that stronger seizure, and loosen him up a bit. We will also supplement Andrew's food intake with Pediasure.  Hoping this resolves soon.

Monday, October 10, 2011

Pretty sky tonight..

Friday, October 7, 2011

My Boy...

Today marks the day my son Jacob Daniel was born way to early, way to sick.  Simply put.... no amount of prayer, or doctors, or medical intervention could have kept him alive. 

Now ten years later..I'm one of "those" moms.  A mom with no explanation at all as to why having a healthy baby works out for some and not for others.  I have experienced a loss that is unexplainable.  No explanation, no matter what I believe.  My infant son died and I will never know what kind of son he would have been, who he would have become, what kind of brother he would have been to Andrew, who he would have looked like, or any of that. 

I would have liked nothing more than to decorate the kitchen table with what you love, and to make you feel extra special for your 10th birthday. 
Happy Birthday.

Monday, October 3, 2011

Happy Birthday to my Ava!






My girl is a sassy 6 today!  Last night when I put her to bed she told me to go ahead downstairs and decorate so she could get her birthday started as soon as possible.  (She knows I always decorate our kitchen table area).  The top picture was taken this morning as we went to the bus stop.  Ava came home with a birthday crown and a birthday pencil.  We were told she heard her name on the loud speaker this morning. " Happy Birthday to Ava Mae Ablondi.  Come up front to the office and get your pencil." The next two pictures are this afternoon.  Ava's most enthusiastic gift was the Barbie make up set fro m Grandma.  She also liked her "pajama jeans" from us.  Dave and I twisted things up a bit and decorated our dining room this afternoon so when Ava came home from school she would be surprised by a spooky room (Ava's House of Horrors).  The picture is showing our "prized scariest piece" the talking spooky grim reaper.  That's Ava making friends with him - saying "I know you are just a toy, I'm not scared of you".  The last is the Barbie cake, which we all enjoyed, but Ava didn't want any.  Go figure.
Hope you had a wonderful birthday Ava!   We love you!!

Sunday, October 2, 2011